how can we develop our personality ??

first of all let we know what is personality :

personality is something that defines your identity who you are or your abilities . every one must have their own personality to be different from others .

 we all know that in todays world everyone wants a good personality to look better or for more reasons . PERSONALITY make us a different person or a good guy from others . to make our separate identity personality is must in schools , collages , office  and many more  . it shows our worth , abilities , our attitude …. there are many ways to develop our personality 

here are some of the ways or might be tips to develop your personality :

1. love your self :

it didn't mean that you say i love me or only for the show off you may say i love myself , it means that you really really from your deep heart not for the show off you must have to love your self . sometimes we feels that we are not good from the shape of our body , color , behavior , or may be something else . here i want to suggest that you want to accept yourself as you are , 

if this attitude will come inside you than you will automatically love yourself . it is the key role to develop your personality in a different way . so instead of hating yourself love yourself to build a new identity . 

2. don't compare yourself with others :

now this is also the main point of your personality .don't compare yourself with others  at any point may be its related to your body or else . if you will compare yourself it looks like that you are insulting yourself which affects your personality very deeply . it makes others to show you are dull or may be week . so don't do that  .

3. bring positivity in yourself :

it sounds like instead of thinking negative you need to think positive . positivity is the key to do wonders so it is must within us to develop our personality . many of us may give up after loosing something instead of learning from that . positivity makes you  strong enough to tackle any situation in your life and it will be very useful to develop your personality .

advantages of positive attitude 

4. know your worth :

now if you don't know who you are ? what is your worth ? than how you will able to set your personality . first thing you must know in your self is your worth . once it will be noticed it will work like a wonders in your life , it plays a important role with your attitude . know your worth and go with that flow.

5. be a good conversationalist :

you must have quality of good conversationalist in you . in any place any point of time with your family , office members , friends etc. don't talk much beyond the topic  . you must know how to talk , when to talk and what to talk . this is interrelated to your personality . expand your ideas and interest related to that topic which makes more interesting for others to listen . it really gives a good effect on your personality .

6. be a good listener :

 listen someone with the concentration or with the consciousness . don't ignore the one who is speaking something to you or any of the group discussion quality of the good listener makes a separate identity of the person which directly affects your personality .